Getting In Early

Robin Maugham, author of “The Servant” and nephew of Somerset Maugham, wrote his life story in his early middle age because “most writers leave it until senility sets in before even starting on the autobiographies.”

In an exclusive interview with Gay News he said: “I chose this time to write about my life because I think many people leave their autobiographies too late. Either their mentality’s gone or their energy’s sapped. Anyway, they’re insipid.

“I found it terribly hard to write about my sexuality. It was worst writing about the girl I married. I sent off the manuscript to her, and she sent it back to me and said I’d been terribly hard on myself.

“I think the normal person, male or female, is bisexual. I do think far too many people label someone as queer whereas they are bisexual. I would like to think that I have done some tiny little bit to make things better in England.”

Many of Robin Maugham’s works attack the English Establishment, but he’s very much a product of English society.

He says: “Surely it’s possible to be pro-England and anti-Establishment.

“Like many young men who were conscientious objectors during the war, I went off to fight for England. I feel that sort of patriotism.

“But I feel it’s more than silly that I’m only allowed to spend 90 days a year in the country one loves.”

During 1972 Robin Maugham was allowed to stay in his beloved mother country for only 20 days. He says: “I love England and it’s terrific in summer to see all those boys … and girls … wandering around in those marvellous clothes they have these days. But the country has some silly totting-up system, and because of an operation I had here and my two heart attacks, I’m not allowed to stay here more than 20 days this year.”

When Gay News met Maugham he was on his way out again. This time to Ibiza – where he does most of his writing – with his unpretentious entouragette of Peter Burton (who was Jeremy’s best friend, once) and Michael Davidson, who wrote The World, The Flesh and Myself (an early gay book, a sort of Around the World in 80 Boys).

Robin Maugham doesn’t do much writing in England these days, if only because his 90 day sojourns aren’t long enough to keep the author of the Servant among other things, busy. But his autobiography had to be written in Ibiza, he found.

“I found it a lot easier to write about my life at a distance from English society, especially the bits about my homosexuality.”

To save his old friends and their lawyers trouble and distress, Maugham invented “Jim” as a name for his lovers in the autobiography

What was life with Jim like? Maugham answers: “I thought of the device of Jim, so I used Jim, and Jim became almost real. Peter and I felt we knew him in the end.

“Christopher Isherwood in a letter to me says Jim was one of the best things I’ve written.”

The middle-aged man hung on the swivel chair is the nephew of Somerset Maugham, as well as being an author in his own right. “I was influenced by the people around Willy as much as by Willy himself. There were E.M. Forster, G.B. Stone and Harold Nicholson, with whom I had a deep relationship.

“Willy was a very good man and friend earlier on, but in his declining years he became a bit of a monster, and that’s what everyone remembers him as, unfortunately.

“When I had my first novel published at the age of 19, he switched from helping me to almost a positive dislike.”

The reason why Robin Maugham prefers to work in Ibiza is encapsulated in a sentence of Harold Nicholson’s he quotes: ‘Most English writers have a constant nursery governess looking over their shoulders.’

The governess who cramps English writers is English society, and “the English establishment is changing again, in its usual way. Not by revolution but by evolution.

“But it hasn’t changed much yet. Some female said in The Sun that my book was disgusting and obscene. I can only take that as a compliment.

“When Willy published his first novel in 1897 a writer for Vanity Fair wrote, and I’m translating from Spanish now, ‘Mr Maugham must abandon this type of wrok. He has put his nostrils in the gutter and come out with filth.’ That may not be strictly accurate but it’s a translation of a translation.”

Many of Maugham’s books are travel books. That’s why there’s so little about places in his autobiography. He says: “I’ve been bored very, very seldom, largely because I have had amusing friends.”

Life in Ibiza is ordered for Maugham and his circle. He says: “I get enormous satisfaction from working fast, and every time I finish a book I always feel I’ll never be able to start another.

“I go to bed at what you might call a ridiculously early hour, so I can get up and write early.”

Peter Burton, who’s been silent until now, says: “Do you remember when we celebrated New Year at five in the afternoon?”

He does. The taxi arrives to take him to the airport. The last question, what was the most difficult part of your life to write about?

Maugham says “The end. Writing the end had tears streaming down my face.”

Robin Maugham’s autobiography Escape from the Shadows is published by Hodder and Stoughton. £3.50.

The End Of An Affair?

Being gay does not necessarily mean that all homosexuals are continually being harassed and discriminated against. A number of gays in fact, never encounter any difficulty in being themselves, although the vast majority, at some time or other, suffer directly as a result of their chosen sexuality. Either through legal oppression, job and housing discrimination, interference and violence from the police, ‘queer-bashers’, religious bigotry: need I go on? For most gays these intolerant and ignorant pressures from an aggressively heterosexual society become an accepted part of life.

For so many, there is too much to lose by becoming openly angry and struggling for their civil rights, because of society’s failure to comprehend and adjust to an acceptance and full understanding of gayness. A few gays, no longer content to put up with these problems and injustices, are brave enough to ‘come out’, and some of them join organisations such as CHE, GLF and the rest. For them the burdens of being gay, I suppose, become a little lighter and they can see ways in which they can actively attempt to put these wrongs to right.

Personally I have not found it too unbearable to live an open gay life. I found that honesty about myself was the best policy, and luckily most of my friends and acquaintances were aware enough to realise that there was no difference between us, except for my sexual preferences. 1 like to think that some of them now completely accept that there is more than one way to love.

But love has brought me into realising that there is yet another form of oppression put upon us gays by our legislature and political representatives. If you fall in love (define that yourselves) and you are heterosexual, it is the easiest thing in the world to have a happy, possibly lasting relationship. For gays too, to a certain extent. If you are heterosexual and your lover happens to be from another country, it is fairly easy to stay together by marrying.

But if you are gay and your boyfriend or girlfriend is Spanish or French for example, it’s not quite as easy. In fact it is extremely difficult. Immigration laws do not take into consideration gay relationships, thus making life very miserable and empty for some because of this existing situation.

A girl marrying a boy can overcome this, but can you imagine the reaction to a boy wanting to marry another boy, or a girl to another girl? It’s going to be quite a while before anything can be done to rectify this barrier between human relationships. There has to be many other changes, in attitude as well as legislation, before we can hope for any solutions to this particular problem.

Me, I’m feeling sorry for myself I suppose. I’m now alone after going through the beginnings of a very beautiful relationship, that had never been allowed to blossom into whatever it may have become. What happened was that we were separated after his visitors permit expired and he had to return to his own country. A foreigner is only allowed to stay for up to three months, after which he must leave. It is possible to return, but without a work permit (which usually only allows one to work within a limited area of employment and is also no easy task to obtain) and with him having already spent one lengthy period of time here, it could prove very difficult and frustrating to enable him to return.

My boyfriend and I may find a way around it. If we are devious and lucky enough. But most people in similar situations won’t necessarily be as fortunate as us. And we’re not even sure if we will be able to bend the laws yet.

Next time you come across someone who is dogmatic enough to think that gays are not oppressed, see if he/she can find a solution to this. And it is a problem that exists for a growing number of gays of both sexes.

In conclusion I’d like to say that I don’t think marriage is necessary to prove you love someone, but at the time of writing I would gladly ‘take the vows’ with my boyfriend so that we could be together.

ED: The writer of this piece has asked to remain anonymous in case the disclosure of his name hinders his plan to be re-united with his boyfriend.